the worst thing about being shy and introverted is that you most of the time come off as cold and arrogant like you think you’re better than everyone else and thats why you don’t talk to people or hang out with them but it’s really the opposite its like you’re so uncomfortable with yourself that you don’t wanna share it with anyone else so you just dont and people think you’re an asshole but you’re actually just really scared
Friendship is about growing and being oneself, and not about apologizing for your entire existence, and even being sorry for possibly stealing someone else’s oxygen.
It’s about being big and taking up space in people’s life’s because you’re allowed to. It’s not about making yourself as small as possible, so you don’t bother anyone.
It’s about support and singing with them in the car and laughing about stupid jokes. It’s about small gestures and accidentally saying the same thing or finishing the other person’s sentences, because you exactly know what they’re about to say.
It’s about appreciation and loyalty.
It’s about love. Not love love.
But rather this ‘I’m- so-damn-glad-you-are-here-and-I-appreciate-you-so-much-you-have-no-idea love’.
Sometimes it’s also a ‘thanks-for-tolerating-me-on-many-days-because-I’m-horribly-annoying love’.
I like how friend’s can make you feel so happy inside by just breathing.
It’s also very nice how you can make them smile and make them feel better about themselves and all.
Another important thing is that it’s ok to allow them some space if you feel like they need it. It’s ok.